Why, oh why, do guys pretend to still be interested in a girl after the hook-up? Why put in all the effort of pretending you'll call back? Why not just lay it down how it is? You had fun, but it's never gonna happen again. Ta Da!! No lies!! No effort!! Break her hopes now instead of later. It'll hurt her less and she'll think of you as a jerk, not a lying asshole. I just don't understand the need to keep the act up if your not gonna go for the follow through. There is really no need for it.
On that note, yes, I did get shut down AGAIN. By someone I actually kinda know, which should have been reason enough NOT to go home with him. But I was rather drunk and he had been listening intentivly (OK he SOOO wanted me all night, I could tell) most of the night, and he seemed to be rather OK, more so than I would have thought anyways.
And when I called him, he sounded interested in hanging out again.
But then, alas, he did not call. It's a good thing we weren't actually friends and the chances of seeing him again are slim to none. Well, except for the reunion next year...
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